He walked into a local food but a and called the attention of the attendant.
Him: Kemah, which soup do you have?
Kemah: Unku, we get Afang, Okro, Egusi, Bitter leaf, Sour soup, Vegetable soup.
Him: bring all of them let me taste and know which one I’ll prefer.
Kemah: (stares hard at him)
I was talking to a friend who happens to be a “relationship counselor”, and he was telling me how he counsels his clients to taste or test their would-bes to ascertain they are Sexually compatible.
Hear this friend: You’re doing yourself a huge dishonor if you subject yourself to such stupidity, no apologies! Be you a man or a woman, if you allow yourself to be used as a sex object by someone who doesn’t know the difference between “a soulmate” and “a sex mate”, then you’re headed for future pain. As much as sexually compatibility counts in marriage, you should be more focused on achieving “soul compatibility”. As years go by in marriage, the need for sex tends to wane, and it’s your soul connection that will keep you both going.
Now, what happens if you test or taste the first, second or third partner and they don’t meet up with your sexual expectation, you’re going to keep tasting and testing, right? And you wonder why you’re emotionally beaten and drained? Now, if you’ve ever had sex in your life, you should know that sexual satisfaction is a mindset, and not necessarily about the act. Again, you don’t need to have sex with someone to ascertain if they are good in it. You can decide to talk about it, and honesty is needed. Knowing what one like and what he's comfortable with is enough for you. Imagine going to an ice-cream kiosk to ask that they allow you taste the different flavors they have before you buy, who allows that? Stop setting yourself up for pain, Friends. Have you noticed that most players end up marrying people you’ll be wondering, how come? How did they end up with this kinda spouse? The answer is They Got Confused or you hear them say, he/she was a mistake.
When you enter a big supermarket without a clue to what you want, and go operating by sights, you’ll find yourself shopping wrong. If you’re dealing with a mature person, you both know good sex is not a criteria for a lasting relationship. Your body is not microphone that needs to be tested, stop allowing different people handle you. The psychological trauma is worst, when you have to start remembering how or what the
different partners you’ve allowed “test run or taste” you feels like. Some people have already lost count of the number of partners they’ve allowed sex, because they are testing and tasting. When next someone says to you 'I want to be sure you’re good in bed'. Ask them what happened to the other ones they've tested and tasted. Every relationship counselor is not a relationship
counselor. It doesn’t matter where they are trained or how they are trained. Your future should come in view as you take
certain counsels to heart.
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