DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP

Relationship is wonderful between two young adults who find pleasure in each other and decided within them that a love story is worth trying.
Some people can't fall in love until they meet who they love in person, while others can easily fall in love no matter the distance.
Many said love starts with a glance at someone while others disagreed by saying they can't love someone unless they meet the person and have a chitchat first. But in terms of distance relationship, is it healthy or not? It is viewed in different angles because it can favour some people while others can't handle it. Many people believe distance relationship builds the urge to love more but to others, out of sight is out of mind. People in distance relationship tend to be jealous over little things because they will always think their partner is cheating in one way or the other in their absence. If you don't have any source of income as a man, my dear you can't handle a distance relationship due to the money involved to keep in touch.
During festive periods like Valentine day, Christmas day etc, lovers in distance relationship feel lonely most because those who supposed to spend it with them aren't there...
Thereby, making them think someone is filling the gap on that special day. If you're not strong at heart, you will die from within due to loneliness and jealousy, because weak people can't keep distance relationship. But if both of you are very honest with each other, after meeting eventually, the love will be so strong that nothing can shake it. Some people mostly ladies are quick in backing away from a distance relationship. Why? Loneliness, lack of physical care etc, and this can push them into either cheating on their partners with another guy nearby or quit entirely. Distance relationship is dangerous if not handled with trust and understanding. If you can't be faithful in the circle of distance relationship, be bold to back away instead of breaking someone's heart after years of endurance to meet you. True love can come in anyway. Love is a beautiful thing for those who understand the importance of endurance.
MY QUESTION
Do you support distance relationship?
Yes or no?
Drop your comment . Let's hear your opinion. I love you all ..

Figure this out!

A lawyer has a brother who is an attorney in Abuja, but the attorney in Abuja does not have a brother who is a lawyer. How can this be?

Mock Me Not!

Don’t Mock Me, Teach Me
Arturo Zinga

How do we respond to people who have attributes we do not like, or lack the ones we desire? Do we just reject them or mock them? And what is the essential quality in any acquaintance, friend or partner?
How often have you heard people say, I can’t marry a woman that doesn’t know how to cook? Or I can’t be with someone that doesn’t know the difference between your and you’re? I reckon that these have led to the demise of many promising relationships.

First and foremost, I love food. Ah, food is life. In Nigeria, there is a common saying that “the best way to a man’s heart is through his stomach.” So, I do believe a woman ought to possess great culinary skills.
However, as I grow older (and wiser I hope), I have come to accept that not every woman produces magic in the kitchen and not everybody is grammar-savvy. Nobody knows it all and we all have flaws. The shortcomings of the geniuses among us may come easily to those with the lowest of IQs.
As a consequence, I now realise everyone has something to teach you and what really matters is being teachable. So, the most important question ought to be is she willing to learn how to cook? Are they eager to know the difference between your and you’re?
Teachability is not something you can force on anyone; it is a choice. We choose whether to react positively or negatively to other people’s views and ideas. Jazz trumpeter Louis Armstrong once said, “There are some people that if they don’t know, you can’t teach them.”
Naturally, we abhor criticism and negative feedback. No one likes to be criticised, so we develop strong resistance and reluctance to it. This problem is often exacerbated if one possesses any of the six things that can make people arrogant: power, fame, intelligence, affluence, talent and beauty. No matter how powerful, famous, intelligent, affluent, talented and/or beautiful we are, if we are unteachable, it will be hard or almost impossible for us to reach our full potential in our endeavours, careers or relationships.
Hence, being teachable is crucial in self-development and self-education. It is the most important skill in life.
Teachability is linked to having an unquenchable thirst and deep appreciation for knowledge. Your immediate contacts, friends and family are always willing to share their information or knowledge if you are willing to learn from them. Coaches and managers from all walks of life loves anybody that is teachable. They are often happy and eager to help anyone who is not conceited to ask questions.
So go ahead and ask questions for everyday is an opportunity to learn something new. And if someone doesn’t know what you know, try correcting/teaching them before mocking them.

BRAIN TEASER!

LET'S SEE HOW TECHNICAL YOU CAN THINK!!!
Some birds were flying and met a bird on their way. The bird greeted them: Hello hundred! One of them replied, "we are not hundred, we need half of us plus you to make us hundred".
Question: HOW MANY BIRDS WERE FLYING?

Adultery?

...and when caught, they say something like 'Oh...I don't know what came over me, it just
happened'.
Shhhhhhhhhhhh!
Adultery doesn't just happen. Adultery doesn't happen by accident. In fact, the fallacious idea
that it does, is one of the biggest self-delusions ever perpetuated by mankind. Zips don't just open on their own and clothes don't just fall off effortlessly. No one has ever accidentally fallen onto someone's bed and miraculously found themselves sleeping with a stranger. Follow the link to read more https://mbasic.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=1044927268943696&id=740581469378279&_ft_=top_level_post_id.1044927268943696%3Atl_objid.1044927268943696%3Athid.740581469378279%3A306061129499414%3A2%3A0%3A1504249199%3A8684610766980647219&__tn__=%2AW-R

Let's discuss BEAUTY!

Is physical beauty a perception?
Why do I consider something beautiful and others not? What are the foundations of my judgment?
Each time these questions stare at me in 3D, I feel clueless, like a mum that can’t explain to her kid “Mummy, what’s a condom?” the 5 years old kid just asked. Beauty has been a much considered quality right from the creation of man. Not so surprising why the cosmetics and the fashion industries are just very lucrative. So many things have been done to enhance beauty, from manicure to pedicure, facial surgeries, implants etc. Everyone seems to want to reduce something they perceive too big or increase the one they perceive too small. We all want to look just like the person we perceive looks beautiful in our mind. Not just the ladies, we guys too want to look good and attractive.
Let's take a look at this scenario: Three friends (guys) were once in a restaurant, waiting and thinking of what to order when three ladies cat walked in, like Milan models. The first guy rated the first lady from the right as being the most beautiful while the  other two friends went for the middle girl. 
So the questions popped in again. Why did one of them choose a particular girl and the others, the girl in the middle? Does that mean the two other friends getting attracted to the same girl, signifies they both have similar image lying somewhere in their brains? Do people have a picture of what “beauty” looks like, to which they make a quick comparison each time they see something or someone. Or does symmetry and the proportion of details around an object defines beauty? What if everyone in the world suddenly all look alike, how will you judge who is beautiful and who is not? Beauty they say is in the eyes of the Beholder, But what is the BEHOLDER’S BRAIN BEHOLDING??